Recommendations for Interacting with Someone with Dementia.

10 Absolutes for Dementia Caregiving

1. Never Argue → Agree

2. Never Reason → Divert 

3. Never Shame → Distract

4. Never Lecture → Reassure

5. Never Remember → Reminisce

6. Never Say "I Told You" → Repeat

7. Never Say "You Can't" → Say "Do What You Can"

8. Never Command or Demand → Ask or Model

9. Never Condescend → Encourage or Praise

10. Never Force → Reinforce

© Huey 1996. Used with Permission.

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